"I'm single right now. I am very, very happy to be single. And it's better than ever."
You oughta know that when we spoke, Alanis Morissette was at the Salt Lake City airport on her way from a gig at the Sundance Film Festival ”“ no, Robert Redford didn’t turn up ”“ and heading to London. You oughta know that Morissette has just released her third studio album, Under Rug Swept. And, finally, you oughta know that the first single from that album ”“ the characteristically confessional and autobiographical “Hands Clean,” in which the former Canadian teen-pop star assumes the role of Svengali telling his protégée to keep quiet about their affair ”“ is all over the airwaves, likely earning some new fans for the now-twenty-seven-year-old who sold a remarkable 28 million copies worldwide of 1995’s Jagged Little Pill. In other words, folks, it’s probably time to stop making so many annoying references to “You Oughta Know.” Isn’t that ironic? Actually, no.
Literally, damn clean. I have a thing about clean hands. And figuratively, my conceptual hands are getting cleaner every day.
A couple of people have taken stabs, but just like with “You Oughta Know,” they’ve never gotten a denial from me and they’ve never gotten an affirmation, either. That’s not what it’s about. This is not revenge. This is me telling my story.
Definitely. The more transparent, the more authentic I can be, the more liberated I feel and the less fearful. That song is so deeply personal and so specific that it begs the question of exactly what people are responding to. Is it just a musical resonance? I guess a lot of people must be interpreting it in different ways.
Someone who doesn’t ask any questions. Someone who can’t listen to save his life. Someone who has a negative attitude about life. Someone who doesn’t like sex. Someone who complains. That is like, immediately not going to happen for me.
Well, I believe I am God. But I also believe everybody is God. So, yeah, I believe I’m a little piece of God all the time. But so are you.
It wasn’t the birth itself that was challenging for me. It was all the other hats that I had to wear. It was like I was pregnant and I was building a house and I was renegotiating contracts, and I was dealing with a bunch of different changes in all my interpersonal relationships and people who I was touring with. So the pregnancy itself was great, but it was challenging because of all the other things that were going on at the same time.
I don’t like the word tolerate. I prefer acceptance, because tolerate implies that you have this deep-seated buried resentment about something or toward someone, and acceptance just means you’re allowing the differences to just be what they are and you’re agreeing to disagree. I have my boundaries and my limits in my personal life. I would never tolerate someone hitting me or touching me.
Well, they can touch me, but they can’t touch me in violent ways. The good kind of touching — that they can do any time they want.
Oh, it doesn’t matter what you’re doing, it just matters what you’re being, so don’t worry about it.
I think I’m in recovery for everything. We all are for the rest of our lives.
I aspire to not sweep anything under the rug, but I do it. I still do it. I’m still working on it, and I probably did it just this morning.
Well, my house is actually usually really, really superclean.
Yes, I’m a cleanie beanie, but I also can be a hippie, so there’s that both-ness again. Life is so about both-ness.
I’m single right now, I am very, very happy to be single. And it’s better than ever.
What do I have? I have these collected poems of all the greats. Then I have all my psychology books, as always. And I may be the only woman in the world who hasn’t read The Poisonwood Bible, so I’m about to dive into that one.
Just that I’m so peaceful, and happy about expressing it and sharing it. During Supposed Former Infatuation Junkie, there were so many people around me who had such expectations that it felt like I was trying to catch a tidal wave in a thimble, you know. And now it just feels like the expectations are so much lower. And that’s when I’m happy, and guaranteed not to be disappointed.
From The Archives Issue 893: April 11, 2002
‘We’re going to keep growing and we want to you to grow with us,’ fusion…
Karachi rap duo comprising Talha Anjum and Talhah Yunus were announced to make their India…
Supergroup comprising vocalist Eric Martin, guitarist Paul Gilbert and bassist Billy Sheehan will headline Bloomverse…
Rapper alleges he already has sufficient evidence to pursue a defamation action over "pedophile" line…
New Martin Scorsese documentary offers a fresh look at how we became the United States…
The new clip teases player 456 fighting back and new deadly contests